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2023-02-16 22:35:29 (UTC)

Men being Submissive

Im listening so some sex podcasts, more christian based but cover any and all topics and there has been several on men being submissive... women writing in and men, and the guy saying that often women find it hard to go back to seeing their partner as dominant once they have taken a submissive stance.

Hmmm

I love when my spouse is dominant, but its only been a few times, Ive been very clear on what I desire. On the other hand I have entertained pegging and anal play for him. Way over a dozen times for all of those things.

And I stopped the pegging during my trip last yr, I felt a repulsion to do it, I just dont want to. Will that be forever? I dont know. Did we enjoy it together, sure, I got into it, but I think I dont want the dynamic to switch, if hes the one receiving it more, well it gets lop sided, and I love to be dominated, I dont prefer to be dominant exactly. I dont mind some fun role play here and there, but overall no.

So maybe thats why I dont want to do that anymore because of what the podcast is talking about with women....


Im doing okay. Stabilizer dude has been coming on more strong and I ran down some fantasy talk, not sexual but just situational if we were able to take a ride on his bike up the coast in Ca, what would we do and we just played fantasy story.

And Im all , oh no, what am I doing... have to be careful here, hes talking about me in a way like we used to talk,, and I adore him totally, but Im not leaving my husband. And maybe hes fine, but it just is shifting again I can feel it....

And I havent done anything sexual.

I have masturbated a few times, so Ive toned down on that also.

We were going to have sex last nite the spouse and I, and we had edibles kinda late, and he was talking to me and touching my body but I fell asleep and even warned him he better get moving if he doesnt want me to pass out, He said its just fine, I feel bad! I apologized when I woke up but he always says "Its okay, you were tired" so will see how this eve goes.




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