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2022-12-26 11:35:19 (UTC)

Stabilizer Dude Chat

wanted to just save this, hes talking about his marriage


"yeah, the conversations with my wife were her feeling insecure
which, I don't really blame her for
they were uncomfortable
because she wanted to hear that I was going to stay with her forever
and I'm not sure about that
so it was comfortable
uncomfortable

I feel bad about this, but basically said I am not planning on changing anything right now, that I am going to find a psycologist or someone to talk to
she did listen to the stuff about the inner child and emotional unavailable parents
and was sympathetic
but also kind of turned it back around to her again
and I realize that change is uncomfortable
and a lot of this affects her, but is not really about her

she made a comment about trying to make everyone happy and like her
and I'm kind of like, maybe you should stop doing that
you won't ever be happy if you can only be happy if everyone else is
so it was a weird day
she was upset for a lot of it
not in a yelling way, just moping around
I'm not sure she absorbed the comment about not trying to make people happy
I think she was too focused on the fear of being alone if I left her and the kids graduate




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