❤️Canadian Cutie❤️

Life through my spiritual eyes❤️
2022-12-04 21:01:42 (UTC)

From Tears To Smiles ❤️

A sweet reader who is hurting, reached out to me to ask me how I healed after my long-term relationship ended. I wanted to share this publically as I hope it helps more than just her. Hugss to you sweet girl!💜

Once you leave a close person, the scar remains for a while. Your heart does melt with memories. You feel helpless and frustrated. At times, it gets so desperate that you are almost ready to pick up the phone and plead with that person to get back together. The effort of the whole day in staying strong goes to hell with that one moment of weakness when it hits you that you are alone now. It's like someone reminded you to be sad now. It's all in your head. You yourself make things worse for yourself. But I don't blame you. It's not in your control. And that's what makes it worse. You think about not thinking about it again. But it comes back to you. It always does. No motivational speakers work. No self-help books help. No songs heal. It's all bullshit people throw at you who have not felt that pain in its real intensity. If it was so easy to forget real pain, then there would have been clinics selling motivational videos, books, and songs. And people would be "cured" in a day. But are people being cured of their heartache? Hell no.
So I am not offering you solutions to heal your pain. It's a very personal thing. You will know what works for you. It's your journey, from tears to smiles. People might help you a little, but only a little. So yes, there is no option but to let that pain slam your body and soul. You have to feel the pain in order to heal it. But yes, don't, and I repeat, don't wallow in that pain, don't blame yourself. Don't let it dictate your day-to-day life and don't let it define you. Feel it, cry it out but get up and live. Healing takes its time. It's different for different people. But we all heal, eventually. And you too will. I promise you that.
Look, I know that in those soul-crushing desperate moments, your mind does not think so objectively. I know that you are very likely to act stupid (I did lol). I know that it's hard for you to stay strong. But happiness is always hard, my sweet friend. That's why very, very few people are happy. So, try hard, harder, hardest. Because you deserve to be happy. And you will be happy. Big Hug.💜




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