always wth love

Venusgurl
2022-07-16 10:47:54 (UTC)

Talking is Messy

Lately, I've been truly thinking about how talking is so damn messy from a child to teenager yet especially from being in your 20s upto 30s. Every part of our existence being on this planet called EARTH. I truly think it mess with your confidence when it comes to romantic relationships/ friendships... when it comes simple conversations with topics of typical questions to intimate ones then life damaging one's. It's so hard to speak your truth w/o worrying you've hurt someone or ghosting on them without a good reason. I do feel everyone has a right to be open minded to their opinion. How can we express ourselves properly living in 21st century? I'm starting to know that we talk messy all the time yet we all have no filter to say harsh truth of the matter of situation within the topic.
Parents teach us as a baby to middle school we speak respectful and proper when speaking to authority. However, it's never that simple as a kid we definitely hear swearing words at the point nothing else is innocent ANYMORE. Talking has be broken down to the reality of the fact isn't easy to talking about. We as an whole see how in just in 3 years it been a firestorm that we trying put out for some months now. Nobody is 💯 sure how to fix it yet we are talking messy af we know better than you and just shut up....
I've accepted that I'm going be talking messy is normal. I know can't control what's happening around me. When God gives me that role as a parent. I'll tell my kids talking is messy, I know they won't fully understand why u say it. I'll tell them talking is like a first impression. It's nothing perfect and don't take it so seriously you've live with yourself at the end day. Be nice to yourself when talking messy 😌
always wth love




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