Notes from my Black
The ignore negation
I’m a person who really gives people a chance, or many chances. There is a quick recalculation when I come to you and ask for help and I’m ignored though. It takes a lot for me to ask for help because I feel like I’m an imposition most of the time- even if I’m hiring you to do work for me.
I contacted a woman who specializes in Kickstarter campaigns. Her response was kind. “Let me talk to my partner.” I get that. That was two weeks ago. My campaign starts in about a week. I’m flying solo, no help. Not using her and going to a competitor might sour that business relationship down the road.
I contacted 3 separate attorneys and two accountants. I left messages for them to do work for me. One said they would call today. The other 4 rever replied at all. This I don’t want to do on my own. I’m going to have to push to get help… quickly.
I don’t tend to ask twice. I tend to re-evaluate the relationship.