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Life through my spiritual eyes❤️
2022-01-24 20:14:11 (UTC)

I'm Done Pretending ❤️

I used to always think I had to be strong all the time, that being vulnerable and weak wasn’t attractive.
I bought into the notion that we have to appear like we’re okay all the time, even if we’re not.
I realize now that I’ve had it all wrong the whole time.
No one has it all together or completely under control all the time.
Some just do a better job of mastering a brave facade and projecting strength, even when they’re not feeling strong at all.
I know now it’s okay not to be okay.
It’s okay to have bad days, bad moods, and bad feelings.
Crying doesn’t make me weak, it makes me real and able to embrace my truest self.
I’m done pretending I’m a robot because I’ll never be that person that always has it under control..
I’m real, I’m flawed, but I’m genuine in every sense of the word, and I’m putting away the bravado and embracing the real.
I'm going to have days that make me cry and nights that I can’t sleep.
It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with me or that I’m not amazing in my own way.
The people that love me and really truly care about me will always accept and appreciate me, just as I am..
Everyone else?
They can choose to see me for who I am or not, I can’t control that.
What I can control is me..
My happiness, my choices, my desire to feel deeply and love passionately, each and every day.
So, I’ve finally made peace with the knowledge that every day won’t be fun and I’ll have times where I’m not okay.
The best part of it all is that I’m okay with not being okay all the time.
Because in the end, I’ll find my happiness where it has always been waiting for me, one way or the other.




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