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2022-01-10 15:11:12 (UTC)

Forced And Unforced Errors

My robust sex life which includes casual friends, Leaf and Kismet, and my husband and boyfriend, can be a lot to juggle at times. There's regular testing to be done, Leaf and Kismet are poly swingers, very safe and caring, and also testing regularly. From the outside looking in, I appear to have a steady stream of new partners. I don't, call it my sun in Capricorn, call it modest intentions, I tend not to accrue many lovers either at once or in rapid succession. Because there isn't a continuous stream of novel lovers, I put forth more effort into making the ones I have, work out. Suddenly finding that I am sharing with a wider circle, specifically that I am in an Venn diagram with Mr. Curved Line's wife sexually, puts my teeth on edge. The lack of trustworthiness she's displayed makes me seriously doubt her safety measures. She seems to fly by the seat of her pants, if not actually planning for shortages and other problems that make sex unsafe. It's true I have had some mild sexual contact with her directly in the past, I seek to avoid it now, if at all possible. Seeing as she is Mr. Curved Line's wife, there is a real limit to how much I can cut her out of my diagram.

As it stands, I have unprotected from STD sex with only my husband and Mr. Curved Line, neither of them have unprotected sex with anyone else. My husband has protected sex with Kismet. Mr. Curved Line has protected sex with his wife and Kismet. I have safe sex with Leaf, Kismet's partner. Leaf has only protected sex with his other bedmates, including Mr. Curved Line's wife, as does Kismet. Both Kismet and Leaf have a regular testing protocol and share their results with the group openly. Heretofore, Mr. Curved Line, his wife, my husband and I tested only as we added new partners. But now I am feeling the strain of sharing, yet more exposure, with Mr. Curved Line's wife, so it was well past time to get a regular testing schedule for us all. Mr. Curved Line and his wife just went and my husband and I will go in the next day or two.

Mr. Curved Line and I are not overly attached to Kismet and Leaf, while we all seem to have a good time, we are pretty far from wildly passionate about each other. We're amicable and enjoy a good blend of sexy and unsexy fun. I have introduced Kismet and Leaf around to my family and they are very well received. While Mr. Curved Line and I are hoping that the future holds a couple perhaps better aligned with us, Kismet and Leaf are great friends with benefits for the time being. With the advent of Leaf and Kismet in our lives, sometime since summer of last year, our search has been fairly relaxed. Now with Mr. Curved Line's wife's and my husband's emergence into the same small group, well, it's feeling a touch crowded. So we've redoubled our efforts and there may be a natural trailing off on the extracurriculars in the near future. I had discussed with Mr. Curved Line about removing ourselves from Kismet and Leaf's bedroom sooner, however after careful deliberation we have jointly decided that doing so on an artificially accelerated timeline would be something of an unforced error on our part.

Also Mr. Curved Line's wife is regrouping, temporarily, with her toxic ex, so in all likelihood she will voluntarily remove herself or forcibly be removed from our circle if her past is prologue. Kismet and Leaf maintain strict principles of safe sex and will not welcome unknown risks into their bed. For her part, Mr. Curved Line's wife inhabits some mythical place where her ex will leave his wife and flock to be her one and only, whisking her off to a new life. In the past this poor excuse of a human has had his wife tell her to screw off and pretended that Mr. Curved Line's wife was stalking him when the whole thing was mutual nonsense. Mr. Curved Line's wife has also insisted that she is "owed" sex by her ex and happily took it, unprotected, from him. In how she described the sex, I can only term as rapey, if not outright sexual assault on her part towards her ex. The entirety of the situation is unhealthy and devoid of even the most common of sense. She often closes off herself to every other contact in her life except the toxic ex whenever he should happen past. Naturally, it takes one instance of this and the people around her grow wary of the theatrics that she engages in with her stupid ex. So her removal from my sex partner group will likely be a wholly unforced error on her part, as she removes people who would otherwise be decent to her. No need on my part to force any error, she'll self-destruct soon enough. This song and dance of hers about how he changed is as sad as it is delusional. Her toxic ex just uses her until he tires of her or his wife gets suspicious and then he throws Mr. Curved Line's wife under the oncoming bus of his wife's displeasure.




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