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2021-11-25 08:59:28 (UTC)

Let's rethink this whole process...

Surely there is a reason....she was turned down for the rental house. Probably because there are many many people trying to find the same house. And although they got to go see it and start imagining themselves there; so did a bunch of others....as I told her...this might be a good thing. Sure, they have to chill and be calm...work as much as they can...save too...pay off the two cars......so her she has less debt than...she does now. It would be horrible if either one of the girls lost their cars...one drives to school....and babysitting jobs...the other takes classes and has a part time job. The third one...has a new jeep...she pays her own payments...she is much like her mom. So, they have two full time...people working and those two have more than one income...the other two can use their money to help out...but..they will continue to get their education...and at least attempt to live a normal life...until they also can work a full time job....or at least have more money coming in.....save save save...is the main thing....and staying calm.

Hell, if they are lucky maybe he will get sick of being there...and will move himself. This would give them the opportunity to rearrange that 3 bedroom house to accommodate them better...she has a lot on her...and two of them are actually in supervisory roles.....good role models..for all of us really.

Whatever happens....I have cancelled my knee replacement...I need to be out there making some funds too...
I have a plan also...but it includes the need for more closed transactions of my own...and money in the bank.
I need to pay down my own debt....so when I apply for the construction loan to build on to this house....it will be approved and I can get enough...to make it work...just like I want it. Now....I know I need more room here...
cause if push came to shove...all the girls can come here. And bring their animals with them....the old man is gonna have to learn how to make compromises...himself.

I have actually talked to him about this...construction loan...and he seemed to be okay with it. What he may not understand...it won't matter...I will be able to get it on my own...and if at the right time...he does not want to sell or build on..here....fine. I will simply start looking for a larger home of my own...and all 5 of us girls can live together...and my son too...but it appears my son will soon be living with someone else....no matter what...we got this shit...
and we will be okay.

This is the time in all of our lives...me them...you too...where we are learning how to survive. Some of us have always been survivors...in life...and some are still learning. No one ever imagined that the cost to rent a home for your family would be so out of reach...it is almost like a damn trap....where you will be working all the time to pay it...and never again be in a position to save. What the hell? Many are saying the same thing.

It is time to rethink life...and how to live it.

One thing is for sure....saving to buy your own home....will at least you be in control of the payment....RENT however...can go up each year...and at some point...you may not be able to afford it. A trap to fail.

Time to rethink....the whole process....

*today is Thanksgiving...

he is cooking a ham, making potato salad, deviled eggs and steamed broccoli.

We will have no cakes or pies...this year....just a little food...no one here will be stuffing a turkey or their belly...

my son has stopped smoking....and he is gaining his weight back...
I am losing...weight....and knee is feeling much better....with every dropped pound.

I will be speaking to a dentist soon about these teeth.....
1 thing at a time....that is next on my list. *hint to you...I had crowns put on my top front teeth about 25 yrs ago...and my teeth look great..or did until that one fail out. just know that paying a lot of money for crowns....if you stay alive long enough...guess what? You wasted your damn money...and will have to have dentures..or implants at some point...or no teeth at all. My old man has NO TEETH. He has dentures..but does not wear them. Yes...you read that correctly.

My point...is rethink spending all that cash on crowns....

Rethink a lot of things...
SURVIVAL is counting on a new plan in this day and time....

BE THANKFUL today for your memories of days gone by....where we did not have to worry so much....

Like...what if all rentals started at 5,000.00 a month...for a one bedroom..and up for more BRs? Can you handle that?

RETHINK your future.....times are changing...and we need to change with it...to survive.

Later


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