Songbird System

Raven
2021-10-19 21:54:57 (UTC)

*mind blown*

Holy shit it's been parentification this entire time. Along with infantilization. No wonder I'm so fucking confused all the time. It's actually kinda impressive that I be treated like an infant and a parent at the same time. That requires a lot of work.

Turns out being forced to take care of your sister your entire life or face abuse isn't a normal thing. Especially when that sister horribly abused you in your childhood and teenage years.

And it's not normal to be a therapist for both of your parents and your sister. Some people use the term emotional incest but I don't really understand what that means. I tried looking it up but I think I need to do more research on it.

Is this why I'm not being allowed on disability either? Because I'm viewed as the parent to my entire family even if they don't realize that they're doing it themselves. I mean I do constantly have to fill in a motherly role for literally everybody. And then they get their mind blowns when they realize I don't want children even though the majority of people still just see me as a baby factory. Thanks, grandparents.

Holy shittttttttttttttttttttttttt

It's been emotional abuse this entire time!




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