Thewill831

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2021-08-07 14:09:13 (UTC)

Vitor

Ive been struggling with a few issues the last week or so. Mainly my house being a disaster area from the stripping of the ceiling and painting. Just makes me miserable and not even want to go home. And of course the wife and I had our obligatory fight of the month. We havent talked or had any contact in about a week now. Fabulous marriage I have. But today I want to write about another issue that is going down in my life right now. See, my daughter's boyfriend Vitor and I had an agreement that he is supposed to call me whenever he comes to our house to visit Laia or pick her up. This stems from him going into our house without permission a few years back, and claiming that someone had broken in. He went in when no one was home, opened some drawers and moved a few things around. I think Laia and him were fighting and he wanted to send a message or something. He claimed he showed up and the door was open and he saw someone in the house. We had to call the police that day. I was at work, and the wife called and was scared to death. Vitor would later admit to me that he did it all himself. I forgave him, but also told him that I wanted him to call me anytime he came to my house from that point on. I wanted to know anytime he was coming over, whether I was home or not. And he did it for a while. Then after about a year or so of this, he stopped doing it. I never told him he could stop. I finally had a talk with him, about 6 months ago, asking him why he had stopped calling before he came over. He claimed Laia had told him he didnt have to anymore. I explained that the agreement was between me and him, and he shouldn't listen to her about that, he should just ask me. I told him he would have a family of his own someday, whether it was with Laia or not, and he would understand where i was coming from. So he stared calling me again, whenever he came over. I should explain that although I was annoyed that he had stopped doing that, I was not mean or nasty in any way when we had our talk about it. Anyway, the last couple weeks, his family had an outbreak of covid and he hasnt been over. He just started coming back the last week or so. He has not called me. I was a little shocked the first time he showed up and came in the house but didnt call me first. Now it seems like he thinks he's off the hook, because he's been coming over spending time with Laia, but has not called me once. Before this happened, I was actually thinking about telling him he didnt have to do that anymore. Now I'm a little bent out of shape about it. I've been trying to catch him away from Laia when he's leaving or something, but he stays right by her side whenever he's there and usually leaves when she does. I was hanging out with Brad the other day, we were having our usual talk over a few cold beverages. I asked him what he thought, and to give me his best advice about the matter, because he knows the whole story and was my boss at the casino when the original event happened. His advice was to just have a word with Vitor about it, but not to get upset and just talk to him. I have really already done that when we had our talk a few months ago when he quit calling me before coming. I guess Brad's point was there is no reason to be upset about it or show anger when I do confront Vitor about the situation. Ill try.




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