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Ad 2:
2020-11-21 20:28:38 (UTC)


So I think I've found a root issue. A core thing, if you will, that is fucking me up.

It's a kind of mauerbauertraurigkeit mixed with cognitive dissonance and developing feelings that I don't want. And also the fear of losing those close to me.
Ironic part is that I also want to push people away because I don't want to burden them with my troubles (even though I know I won't be a burden when doing that). So I'm effectively locking myself between telling my friends everything and risking to lose them, and pushing them away with the same result. It's... a complicated cocktail of emotions and feelings.

How do I get rid of this?