I must always remember that I am unique -- just like everyone else and I have the ability to choose my reactions.
If any of my exes texted me saying I miss you, I garentee they would not like my response.
I would ask two questions:
1. What did the bitch you left me for get tired of supporting you?
2. Are you going to step up and pay your way?
See I am not a sugar momma! You didn't even tell me you were married still so I don't see I need your bull shit anymore! There are bigger goals in life than being a good woman to a man. I need to be a good woman to myself.
Trust me self love will never hurt me. I don't care what other people think. I live by my own rules.