sia

sia
2019-12-27 00:11:09 (UTC)

Fake friend

So it all started when college begun,I made some random friends just because I needed to survive the first day,not that we had any hobbies in common or something. There were 3 of us,lately two more girls were added. I was talking with one girl more,she was really sweet complimenting me sometimes making me feel awkward since I don't know how to respond to compliments and prefer to respond something along the lines of stand up comedy and making fun of myself to break the awkwardness of the flustered thank yous. So since we were talking so much I kept showing her BTS since non of the group of college friends listened to kpop neither did she at first but then fell in love with one of the members and started searching HARDCORE about kpop. We had this in common,little of my friends listened to kpop and read fanfics so we grew closer because of that. Sometimes after a long time she was more comfortable with me and often was rude to me like asking about calling my father to pick us up because she couldn't carry her books any longer and telling my again and again because he didn't pick up and when we had to go to bus somewhere else she acted like she was offended and told me that I should carry her books and I said alright give them to me even though I had mine to carry because I could no longer hear her complaining. Other than that we were quite fine. Then one night I met my boyfriend at a party when I saw him I showed him to her and she found him good looking too. On our second date we decided to tell two of our friends to come and I told her. She sat on the table in front of my boyfriend and I sat next to him. During our conversation she would talk to him way TOO much to the point I didn't get to him as much as I wanted to and even kicked him playfully under the table with her legs,even the friend of my boyfriend was awkward about her behavior and she just said she did that because she felt comofrtable with him because she liked his personality. Later on when we went out like that again the four of us she would brag about that night at the party that lot of guys came to talk to her and emphasize that they were 8 and I was really awkward about it like my boyfriend and his friend. Moving on,she started dating his friend even though she didn't really seem to be attracted to him,her ideal type was nothing like that and she didn't even seem thrilled or talked about it. The friend of my boyfriend was kind of shady it was obvious that he was jealous of my boyfriend probably because of the first day that my friend decided it was a great idea to interact more with my boyfriend than his friend. She told me that my boyfriend's friend told her that my boyfriend had said that he considered breaking up with me if my friend and his didn't work out in the end. I was really angry about it my boyfriend told me that he had never said such thing and it was just his friend talking all by himself that he does that a lot now that I know him like when he stresses about something and keeps talking about it but non of his friends really pay attention to the craps he is talking about. So my boyfriend's friend blamed her that she got things wrong and told me that my friend had agreed even though he didn't and then she kept blaming him that maybe he didn't mean to make it sound like that but he did. When we were past this argument non of them actually admitted who did wrong. My friend started talking more to our other 3 friends from college,started compliments ALL of them except from me but way too much it was really awkward to see her doing that again and again being like 'your clothes are gorgeous I know I say that again and again but they really are' and so and so but one time while we were with our college friends waiting on the bus station she blurted out she knew a secret about my boyfriend but could't tell me,just like that in front of everyone so casually as if it was a joke and I just laughed awkwardly about it,not knowing what else to do at that moment. When we got home I texted her asking her to explain why she did that in front of our friends and she didn't give a clear reply as to why she would blurt this out in front of the others but kept insisting she couldn't tell me and I was like then why the hell mention that you know a secret about it that you can't tell me when you could just keep it to yourself and no one would ever know!After pressuring her she finally told me something really negative about my boyfriend's family life that his friend had told her and that was when I was sure that my boyfriend's friend wasn't a genuine friend at all if he went around and told a chick he was dating for barely two months about his friend of twelve years. But it was really uneseccary and she could just ignore it,she really didn't have to tell me such a personal thing or even mention about it in front of our friends. One day I told her and one other friend from college how I ended up ditching my friends from neighborhood for two hours and my boyfriend his because we were together and forgot to go and meet them and she started being like I would never forgive a friend of mine if she did that just to be with her boyfriend and she just made me sound so awful that I actually confornted her in front of our other college friend because she kept going on about how bad of a friend I was and not focusing on the pont of the conversation at all that was about the time I spent with my boyfriend instead. My friends weren't even angry to me because it was the first time I wasn't on time but somehow she who wasn't even invited was offended. Later on we hang out once again with my boyfriend her,his friend which was her then boyfriend and another friend of my boyfriend. When her boyfriend had to leave she started searching the knee of my boyfriend to find the nerve that would make his leg kick,all touching him and stuff right in front of my eyes and later she kept repeating that she had an empty house(meaning that she wasn't living with her parents) even though it was completely out of topic to our then conversation to the point the random friend of my boyfriend quiettly asked why she kept saying that. Months later she started telling me that her friends were number one and her boyfriend was second and that she would never ditch her friends because of her boyfriend and that it was a bad thing to do and then told me that I did that even though I also hang out with her just not with our other friends from college because I told her I felt like I didn't fit in and honestly she also didn't fit in at all they just hang out sometimes after college but never out of university ground or at weekends. I had told her that I viewed my boyfriend differently and my relationship was and is stronger than what she had with my boyfriend's friend they didn't even text and hang out once a week. That day after I hang out with her I had to wait for my boyfriend to pick me up and asked her if she could wait with me and told me that she wouldn't get to because she had to get home bath and make something to eat in order to go out with her friends like 3 hours later?And my boyfriend was angry about it because she told me that she couldn't wait even though it would take him 10 minutes 20 maximum to be there even though one time me and my boyfriend waited with her for one hour because her boyfriend had stood her up. In the end she ended up waiting with me for 10 minutes but to that point she had made me feel terrible that she had to wait and keep me company. And some other times she had just attitude her face was totally blank even though you did nothing wrong to her she would reply quite angrily and seemed really hostile to the point we asked her whats wrong and she was like nothing im always like that you're supposed to know me etc but if her friends from college asked her she was like oh nothing I just feel a little down and didn't give them an attitude like she gave me when I asked at all. During our random conversations I would tell her anything random and she was like I know it I know it I already know it even though practically she didn't know what I told her because I was told this by someone else so she couldn't really know about it. And also she started not telling anyone about her grades even me that I was her friend.she had come to my house for sleep overs texted every day etc,she would fail a subject and act like she passed it even though it was easy for everyonet to see her grade posted on the event board. She would be like oh this was very easy I passed but then she failed even the easiest modules which was kind weird that she didn't even want to admit it to me. It was clear that she was sticking closer to the friends from college and there were another common group of friends we had which I clearly liked much more but she didn't tell me when she hang out with them and told me when she hang out with girls from college even though she knew I never hang out with those fake bitches I did it once and they were talking for two hours about their roots and about their great grandparents and their DNA. When we were with them at college I felt pretty much left out like she would talk to them and they would have their back at me and talk about something that I wasn't informed so I couldn't take part in the conversation and they didn't even update me or try to open up a conversation with me. She also told my boyfriend that she and our 'friends' from college really liked his long hair and that they said they should make a group page for his beautiful hair and she hadn't even told me about it in the first place when I asked her about it she just said what she told my boyfriend and that she thought out of the friends of our group I had the prettiest boyfriend and I was like yeah but your boyfriend is great as well don't underestimate him etc. They day we last fought was when we had to go to a dance class and she had texted me in the morning if we were going to go and I replied to her when I woke up which was 1 hour before the lesson started and I told her I wanted to go. She didn't mention that she didn't have time or that she would be late because she had to take the bus she just told me not to be late so I assumed she was ready. Then while my dad was driving me there 3 minutes before the lesson started she called me and told me she hadn't even gotten on the bus and I knew from previous conversations that she went to the bus station 15 minutes earlier but in my country you have to wait 40 minutes earlier because buses are always late its a rule. So when we later met I confortned her and told her you can't tell me you hadn't even gotten on the bus 3 minutes before the lesson starts you want like 20 minutes to get here even if you had just gotten on the bus! And she was like its not my fault I texted you in the morning and you didn't reply and I told her I replied when I woke up and it didn't even matter because she told me that I shouldn't be late she didn't even mention about worrying to be late herslef!Then she started telling its not her fault that the bus is late and I was like you should have informed me earlier that you would be late whether it was the bus' fault or your micalculation and she had the blank face on and answered sarcastically alright next time I'll be one hour earlier down at the bus station and I told her you should be one hour earlier like everyone who uses a fucking bus! and when we were done with dance class and left she didn't even say hi to my father just walked past his car even though we had helped her many times and got her home instead of her taking the bus. Now she just speaks at the girls at college,making sure that I don't get to interact with them at all and has the audacity to hint that she did nothing wrong and I just vent out my anger on her...I just can't believe how she has the guts to even look near my direction considering she did many things wrong and won't only not admit to them but even acts like I'm the one who's wrong and should be sorry about it. In group chat she never replies to a statement I do for the whole group and if I ask something she always spams something else random.Some people just don't know how to act and don't have limits,are shameless about their shitty behavior and I'll have to accept that but I still can't tolerate them every time it happens to me. She acts like she's the one who distanced herself from me and didn't even ask what's wrong,doesn't even care to fix things up because she only thinks of herself.




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