Street_smart

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2019-02-10 08:37:49 (UTC)

Do I move on from my friends?

I'm wondering if I should let some of my core friends go? They seem to be content with just partying and playing darts. I'm ok with a hobby. I really am. But it shouldn't be the main goal in life. I still have career goals even though I've been at it for a long time. A promotion or two is still something I want to achieve. More money is never a bad thing. I still like to play darts but my friends seem to put that in front of most other things.

Sorry, darts is fun but not my life. I still want to do some self improvement. I still think I will eventually find romance again. I still love the outdoors so I intend to go camping, fishing, hiking, etc, etc. I do want to travel. Also, maybe even eventually buying a boat. Maybe even get into a relationship with my kiddos again if and this is a big if.. my ex wife lets me hang out with them.

Regardless, those are just some of my goals and getting drunk playing darts is not high on my priority. To be honest, it conflicts with my other need which is going to crossfit. I don't go to the gym when I have a dart match that night. My arm is shot after the gym so playing darts right after does not work :) I'll have to think about next season. Maybe I'll take a break from darts next season and focus on other things. Hope my arm is better by then.

So now, I have a big decision. Should I let my friends of 20 years go since they no longer fit my lifestyle? I mean we do love and care for each other, it's just that we are walking a different path in life now. I'll have to think about this more. I'm just shooting the breeze here on my diary. Sometimes it's easier to see in writing.



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