Yes it has been a long time since I was here. Life is settled and now I am ready to move to the next stage of my life. To do that I need to go freelance as a business analyst. I have started applying for freelance jobs. I have so many things to do: I want to travel, I want to do charitable work, I need to replace a few things around me (e.g. my car) most importantly I want to be comfortable and be happy within myself again. Everything is on hold until I get this new job. It will come ....
In the meantime it looks like we have come to the end of court cases with my ex as the last case it was clear for my salary and my expenses that I was doing beyond what I should be doing. I believe she has accepted this because I now see she has started major work to refurbish the family home that was given to her and where she lives with the children. It will cost a lot of money to do this renovation so she wouldn’t be taking me to court again to ask me for money (given that I am struggling) while she can afford to start this major project. I just thank God we have (possibly) come to the end of this so we can both continue with our individual lives in peace