✯Sincerely, Me✯
☯LivingWithMyself☯
Stop Asking For Nudes
Dear Reader,
One thing I hate in the world of online dating, is when you meet a guy who immediately asks for nudes, and continues to pressure you for them.
I’ve met a few people on whisper, and like, I just had to tell a guy I added to Snapchat to stop asking. Or at the very least stop asking every day..
When I meet people I let them know immediately that I’m not comfortable showing my body right away, and I may never be, and that it really just depends on a lot of things.
And sometimes I can show people I’ve met within a short amount of time, and then there’s people who it takes longer with. I just maneuver around how I feel about it.
One of the quickest turn offs, is consistently asking for pictures, after I’ve explained all of this, and they haven’t given me a day or two since the last time they asked.
My thing with it is, you’re not listening, or understanding, you’re not giving me the time I need, and you’re pressuring me after I’ve said no.
And I can tell you right now, I don’t want to be with anyone who doesn’t respect when I say no.
Work with me, talk with me, make an effort.. and if we get close enough, and I feel comfortable, I will show you. It’s something I love doing with someone I at least feel I can trust.
And yeah, I’m human. Sometimes I end up trusting people I shouldn’t.
But, it happens.
Bottom line is, pressure me for nudes constantly will ensure you’ll never get one.
Sincerely,
Me
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