I am meant to see the kids every other weekend. They are meant to be with me for that weekend. During this time most of the time there could be possibly some drama where for some reasons the kids may not come. My ex uses this time to try and get a reaction of me (that’s what I think). I stay above all that and I concentrate on making sure the kids are aware I want them to come over to mine.
They are currently out of the country on holiday but she didn’t tell the kids they were going on holiday until they got to the airport and my older son calls me to tell me. The point is that she didn’t feel it necessary for me to be aware that she was taking the children out of the country. Again I stand above it and will not react.
God made me a father and so shall it remain