Sarah

One day at a time
2017-04-18 20:46:29 (UTC)

Kids..

Ugh.. Talk about a complete shock. I found out today that my oldest son lost his virginity.. at 14!!! 😯 I thought he and I had more of an open relationship than this, but I'm starting to wonder. He said the girl he dated for almost two years was the one and they had sex several times in that time. I really believed him when he said he was a virgin and even defended that among family and friends. He told me I'm the only family member who knows and he'd appreciate this to stay between us. In a way, I'm glad he could tell me (eventually), but in another way, I'm blown away. I'm not naive to think things like this aren't going to happen, I feel more surprised that he kept it from me. I gave him the lecture about being on the limb, about to be booted from the nest to either fall or fly.. I feel like that's all I can do at this point. For what it's worth, he will be 17 this year and he knows "everything." I guess I keep his secret, to maintain his trust, but I'm just floored.. 😞
Is this a parent fail?




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