Anjali

strength
2014-06-04 09:59:10 (UTC)

i need to be more practical

I have never been good at any work. Even now I am the same, an average child. the only difference is I have that urge to grow and get better. I am no different in that everyone in this corporate culture wants to grow and get better everyday every hour. But I am running out of time I got a lot to manage and a lot of people to answer, so I got to rush. Trying to improve my skills everyday and no doubt my efforts have not wasted at least not all. But then something happens at home or at office and I will be back to zero. My most regret is my most desperate need. I want my husband to feel positive about me, to have confidence in me and believe me and my duty towards him is to keep him happy n comfortable at home and at the workplace. I am unable to do either.Only my changed attitude towards his family or my in-laws could help. Keeping my ego apart n head calm and throwing my little heart out of my body is the only solution under the sky. Believe me thats not really difficult if you ignore that ego thing and you cannot store you heart in ajar. ....!!!
Let me first learn this professional attitude. It will make every twist of my life straight. all I could make out in years is that Sachin's mom is not really difficult. Like any other Indian women she is an emotional fool. I just got to be a little smarter and straight in my words.
Never argue and never directly say no. You can never win an argument with your MIL. And accepting no from the daughter in laws could be an insult for her, so twist play and manipulate your words. But direct no could be a disaster to the relation and will again bring my efforts of impressing her to zero.
I don't have to love her I just have to show that I love and care for her.

Thats life and that's undoubtedly terrible. Once it became a habit I will feel better about it.




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