Ranmat

The Last Hours
2014-04-15 03:49:36 (UTC)

Jonahs Dad - The Moron

So.... I usually do not let Jonah go over to his dads/dad's people's house without me. both sisters are gay and their partners are always there. There is marijuana on the table... they smoke like chimneys....but they are his family to so do it in every 4 months or every 6 months intervals... when it comes to him spending the night.

I am raising Jonah without pagan holidays and letting him understand why. So there was a couple of times that they ask for him to spend the night. I ask what do they have plan and they say... oh nothing... maybe a movie..... or some games with his other brother.... who is a year older. That sounds cool but as I get there... I'm hanging out...... because I do try to spend time with them and apparently twice they had planned to "decorate the Christmas tree" .... or "color easter eggs"...... knowing how I was against it. I understand he is there family too but they are not around when it comes to raising him. His father hasn't so much have given me money in over a year. And its not about the money... its about the time that is spent with him. But I have to call him to figure out why he hasn't called his own son? So... until Jonah is big enough to know right and wrong on certain issues.... I'm usually with him.

They get mad if I bring food. So I make sure Jonah is fed before I drop him off. They do not feed him like I do. For one he eats. ALOT. He can pack down some food and I cook most meals. With his dad, chicken fingers, nuggets, top ramen, hot dogs, fries. ..... When I picked him up last night he was telling me that he was hungry and that he had told his dad and his dad was like your mom is going to be here soon. That really pisses me off. If the child is hungry..... .feed him!

I hate that his clothes are balled up in his back pack. He didn't have his jacket because he left it somewhere.... and it was COLD last night.

He is always like "I got it , I got it". But then at 7:30 last night he was like "are you on your way"... we gotta get ready to go to bed. Negro.... your ass is not going to be at no 7:30. The last time he spent the night was in November! I never ask him to help... Only when I really need to be somewhere and I don't have a sitter or when I really need a break. That irritates me.

But this is why he gained the "Moron" title.
I walk in his place and Jonah has the game controller in his hand and he is playing Grand Theft Auto...... Really? What parent feels its alright for a 7 year old to play a game where prositutes have sex in alleys,... where you can stab and shoot and steal in first person.

If I bring this up to him,.... I am rigid. So I have to concentrate on my son so he knows why these types of entertainment are not appropriate.

I am stuck with this dumbass.

I love my son but I would take time back and had a father for my son that is actually a father and one that I actually loved.




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