MissFlowr_MTL

NewLifeinMTL
2013-09-29 23:22:26 (UTC)

my boyfriend''s emotional problems.

my boyfriend one of the best people i know, but he has issues that run deep. early on his parents separated and he lived with his mother and she was unfit, she would leave for days and then come back with money and even though their power or water was off she wouldnt pay the bil she would instead buy something that wasnt needed like a new tv or some new accessories for her car. many times their cupboards were bare, he became the caretaker even though he wasnt the oldest child and took action to help the other kids survive and then 18 months ago or so he finally stood up to his mom and told her what a terrible mother she is and how much he hates her for how she treated them and she kicked him out and he had to move away, by this time he was in a dedicated relationship with a friend of mine and it became a long distance thing. but as soon as he moved in with his dad it became stressful because he had no friends and had to walk to school 2 miles one way along very busy streets and his dad would laugh at him and call him stupid and and get mad at him just for being himself. constantly being laughed at and yelled and eventually his father and older brother would gang up on him and beat him up because they knew he had a belief of pacifism and wouldnt fight back they beat him so severely that he would b in bed for days recovering from the dislocated joints and bruised parts. but yet he still found time to make his girlfriend feel like a princess the best he could because she could have cared less about his homelife. and eventually the ling distance got to her and she walked away from their 2 1/2 year relationship like it was nothing. for another guy in the friend group too. and she lost a lot of people's respect and i was the one that swept in and picked up the broken pieces of him and has been trying to put him back together again. i know my energy work techniques will help him, like they have helped me but he is so hesitant like i'm going to perform some sort of ritual that will destroy everything. i'm helping hithe best i can considering he cant go to a doctor. its so frustrating when i am holding out a very good thing that will help greatly on a silver platter for him to take and he is acting like a small child throwing a fit saying that it will hurt when there is no evidence to suggest that it will hurt him at all.




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