Ok, I thought that I would give this a shot. I guess I need to explain a little about what has happened in the past in order to get any kind of advice on the present. About 6 years ago I got involved with the person that I thought was the love of my life. You know the kind where you get to thinking someone could have set the sun and hung the moon. Yeah, that ended horribly after trying to make it work on and off for four of those six years. I got cheated on, beat on, lied to... cutting to the point. It took me two years to actually want to get involved with anyone because I didn't want to get hurt again. Now, I've met this person who makes me actually want to get into a relationship again. However, I have one problem. Trust. I cannot seem to trust this person for the life of me. Ok, I could see if this person had actually given me a not to trust them but they haven't. I don't want to find myself in the situation where I ruined something that could be great because of the past. I don't know that there really is any advice for a situation like this. Maybe there is maybe there isn't.