Caught in 2 minds
I am very confused on what to do and caught in 2 minds
Mind 1: I want to show my wife my maturity and basically just be a father and husband until the summer when she moves out. I don’t want to come across all soppy and timid but generally nice and going out of my way to be helpful around the place. It is a big challenge though as I feel less than a man. Very difficult. Also my pride comes into play, she says she is leaving me, why should I be nice?
Mind 2: I should just face my life and get on with it, start removing her from my thoughts from now so by summer it would not be a ‘big bang’ and I will be able to handle the physical separation as I would have started the emotional separation from now.