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Tempis Fugit
2013-01-24 20:52:50 (UTC)

linkedin response on the money... :(

You like this dance, it must feel like love to you...
You have to change. She won't. Pull the trigger or quit whining.
You are either a victim or a volunteer here. She only treats you the
way you have taught/allowed/encouraged/tolerated her treating you.
Stop using your kids (son) as a shield and a weapon.
Sorry to be harsh. But fuck. You are not getting any younger.
Find joy away from her or admit you like the shit treatment and be
Better at sucking it up and act a little joyful. You decide to stay. So
Enjoy your choice. She is who she is. Don't like it? Leave.

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So yeah... there is that, which unfortunately is right on target.

There is also the thing about last night. My daughter was being rude to me. I decided enough was enough and told her I was leaving her in her room and she could tuck herself in. She grabbed my arm as hard as she could to stop be from leaving. I instinctively grabbed her arm back (firm but not too hard- and held it while I spoke to her) and told I did not appreciate her attitude and even though she is tired, she needed to get a grip and start treating me with respect.

She just stared at me, no apology. Then she could not sleep.

When my wife and I went up to bed, she was still awake. I had not said anything about it.

Daughter tells my wife that I grabbed her, after she refuses to explain what happened.

We tell her good night...

then 20 minutes later my wife tells me she really does believe we were meant to spend our lives together, but not have children together.

Sigh...

I am tired... so very tired... of everything.

Thanks for the feedback.




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