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lexi.lynn
2012-11-14 18:23:50 (UTC)

My Amish-English relationship.

As I wrote in my last post, I decided that I would tell you about my relationship. Here's how it started. I'm a singer and I know a country singer, so that kind of makes you known around here. She had a performance on a friday night our local tractor pulls and she asked if I would like to perform some songs with her, so as usual, I took her up on the offer. That Friday night I went up on stage and we sang Tim McGraw by Taylor Swift. I seen some horse and buggies parked down by the woods, this isn't unusual because this area is an amish community. For some reason I just kept looking over the crowd over and over like I was looking for somebody, but I wasn't. I finally seen this small group of amish guys watching. I didn't think anything of it until the next weekend. Ash, Nate, my parents,Kellie (the other singer), myself, and some others were sitting on the front porch on a warm clear night.We heard a buggy and Kellie thought she knew who it was, so she went out to the road and they stopped. They told us there was a party at the new neighbors house and that we were welcome to go. We wanted to meet the new neighbors anyways so me,ash,nate,and Kellie went. When we got there, it was dark, to be expected in an Amish house of course. There were buggies parked in the yard. Everyone was inside so we walked in and introduced ourselves to everyone, even though we couldn't really see each other until we went on the back deck. (Your probably wondering why they didn't have lights on but being a married couple they would get in trouble by the church for having a party) Anyways,on the back porch, some of the people from inside came out and we were all talking, other people were in the house playing the radio. That's when I seen him, he came outside. The most gorgeous thing that I have ever seen...flawless skin,big tan muscles, perfect dimples..ahhhh :) okay enough with that lol. The minute we made eye contact was the minute I had that feeling of shock. I was already in love with him and didn't even know his name yet. As the night continued on all we did was stare at each other, trying not to make it noticeable but neither of us were very good at hiding it! Haha :) right before we left some people asked us for our cell phone numbers. I said bye everyone and the night ended. The next day when I woke up I had a text message from a number I didn't know. I opened it and it said Hi lexi, this is Jon. I never recalled talking to anyone that night named Jon. Then it hit me...the one person I didn't know the name of was the same one that gave me that feeling. We texted that entire day..even that next week, we never ran out of conversation at all, in fact we knew every single thing about each other by the time the weekend rolled around. We made plans at the beginning of the week to hang out and have a fire and party. It just so happens that there was this cool little secret spot that only a couple people around here know, and we went there. The new neighbors came with us. July 17th on a Saturday night was the best night of my entire life and always will be, this is when we started dating. Also when we had our first kiss. Many of these amazing weekends went by. If I would wrote about them all it would take me days. Along with this realtionship came a few bad things, obviously he was Amish and they will do anything to keep their family in the community. I had to face some harsh judgements but as time went on and Jon left it gradually got better. We all got along after he left I went to see everyone in his family and they all realized I was a good person, but at first they made it hell for us. I'm glad to be where I am. The decision for me was difficult if I would be amish or if I would stay English. But Jon decided he was leaving, before dating me he was unhappy being amish. Today, Jon lives with me..we literally have the best relationship ever,everyone says it but if you knew us you'd say the same. We've been through the toughest of tough times and we came out so strong. Well I think ive rambled enough now!! Feel free to give some feedback!!! :):):):)




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