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consider_this_today
2012-02-24 00:50:21 (UTC)

Some things to think about if married

Below, you will find a suggestion to a female who asked a question about her marriage. But to be honest, these are some questions that both males and females should ask themselves more often.

The following will take your being honest with yourself, about yourself. I warn you that I am going to generalize a good bit in this, but I do ask you to think on what I say.

First, many of you women have the idea that you make the universe work by your existence and that you make a mans life perfect simply by being with him. It can be what you say, the views you hold or simply how you act which portrays that attitude. Trust me, many women do this. Well, let me tell you that often, you girls are so caught up in what you think and believe and in telling yourself how wonderful you are that you never realize what you cost in so many ways. You have convinced yourselves that he is lucky to have you to the point that you never wonder if it is true. You never ask yourself what a man has to deal with because of you being in his life. Trust me, you women cost us a lot and require a lot of us that you never really give much consideration to.

Now, you may be a horrid wife or a great wife. But realize that it is not your opinion of it that counts. It is how he sees you and what value he places on what you bring to his life by being with you that you need to think about. Again, so many of you gals have convinced yourself that you are a princess or worth a million bucks that you fail to realize that you may only worth that to yourself. Think of it in these terms. What good is a brand new cadillac, if it will not run? Sure, it looks good but does it serve the intended function? Sure, your friends will say nice car, but you know you cannot drive it. Or it runs well but it only gets a mile to the gallon. Get the point? So many of you girls never ask yourself if you cost the same or more than what you are worth to the man. No, I am not simply speaking about money. It is overall.

What stresses and responsibilities do you cause that are worth the benefit of having you around? Does a guy even break even? Seriously? Many of you women would be wise to ask such things of yourselves from time to time. Sure, men need to ask that of themselves too. But then again, we are not told from infancy that we are a king and only deserve the very best and are entitled just because.

Sure, you gals will scream such things as equal pay for equal work. But then you forget that you women usually will not do things like work midnight shift, work out in the cold and snow and so on. But that never stops you gals from trying to claim some victim status. It also never leads you to ask the questions such as I posed to you. All I ask is give what I said some thought. You may be a very good spouse. But I doubt you actually have sat down and thought about what it costs another to deal with you, put up with you, etc. Trust me, you have flaws and so forth that at times make you a huge pain in the butt, even if you do not see or admit to it. And that is something you need to put some thought into.




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