321Ratio

321Ratio
2012-01-10 20:21:29 (UTC)

Feel'n Neglected?

I asked the spouse to do my a favor and as usual I was let down. I didn't have to ask for the excuse...I already new it. It was the infamous answer, "I forgot". I guess my facial expressions said it all, because shortly after I was asked if I was angry. That made me even more irratable.

My reply was, "would you be irratated if you were in my shoes?" Why ask the question? I would understand if it were the first time I hear that excuse.

I went on to explain how deep my love runs and that love was a team effort. We have to meet each other half way. A sort of pull your own weight.

I understand there will be times when one side must pull more than the other. When a short-stop fields a ball, he/she makes the throw to second knowing...knowing...the second baseman will be there. He/she doesn't look for the secondbaseman...he/she knows there will be somethere to make the play. I guess it's all those years of compitition. They drive you to never let your teammate down. To pick up your game when others aren't at their best and to work hard in other areas when your not at your best. That's all I want...make the effort to meet me there because "I do". Those two little words that started our union, "I do".

I wasn't angry...just disappointed. We had the talk and I expressed my feels. Like an error in the field of play we forget the past and move on to the next pitch...




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