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2011-09-12 20:10:01 (UTC)

Glimpse into the Future

I met my neighbor the other day when we had the blackout. She knew we had birds and she asked if we would like another. She hadn't yet made up her mind, but she was thinking about getting rid of one of her birds- she implied they were a handful. I told her I would be glad to take her bird if she decided to give him away.

She stopped by tonight with the bird perched on her shoulder.
"So you've made up your mind!?"
She said yes, but she wanted to see how all the birds would interact together. I took her to the bird's room, where we introduced the birds.

Once in the room, she told me the real reason she was giving away her cuddly bird. "I'm leaving. I'm leaving my husband and going back to my home country. I just don't want to leave the birds with him. I don't know if he'll take good care of them." Huh, why?
Apparently, he was a womanizer; he would sit on the computer searching for and talking to other women. She added, "And all I do is stay home. I don't have any family or friends here. He goes off to the gym and leaves me here. I get a new friend and he cuts that short. So I'm leaving him."

As she opened up to me, my heart reached out for her. It just so happens that her husband is a vet. And although she was older, she was basically describing my situation.
My military hubs came back from deployment talking to another female. It didn't stop there. I caught him posting online dating profiles. Looking for a "casual encounter." This happened twice.

It made me sad.
I felt as though I was looking at myself in the future. Leaving my husband because he's a cheating bastard. -Sigh-
I know I shouldn't be thinking like this, making it a self-fulfilling prophecy, but I can't help but worry.

I hope she has a happy ending.
My mother DID say, "It's better to be alone than in bad company."

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