Aeryn Sun

Uncharted Territories
2011-06-07 19:00:00 (UTC)

Oh what a night

Friday night I went out w/ some guys from class and had an awesome time. SOCOM and special agent G invited several of us to Buffalo Wild Wings b/c it was military appreciation night or something. I was the only girl among 6 guys and one guy (big bro) made it his mission to get me a guy that night. @ one pt SOCOM leaned over to me and asked which guy in the bar I wanted. I looked around and then said, 'how about the one sitting right next to me' (he was sitting right next to me). It took him by surprise, he wasn't expecting that; 2nd time for the day I took him by surprise w/ what I said. After wild wings we went to a billiards place, played a couple games and drank some more. That's also where we had our first kiss, but sadly I can't remember exactly how is came about. Anyway, we kissed a lot that night and he'd occasionally come up behind me and say 'hey beautiful' or hug me and lightly kiss my shoulder; oh so cute. Yep, I was courageous enough to make out w/ him in public w/ our friends watching. In the end we hooked up in someone's backyard and then on the beach. We fell asleep on the beach, woke up sometime after 0400 and went back to base.

So I finally had that beach experience but was too nervous about getting caught. Also, I was more drunk than I realized. I spoke to him and he doesn't remember everything that happened (said he's got memory gaps) and I'm glad b/c it could have been much better on both our parts. I intent to do it again, just gotta feel him out and see how things go. He's been flirting w/ me still, joking around about that night, so that's a good sign.

I think my comment @ wild wings opened things up, gave him the courage to make a move. Can u believe he was intimidated by me? He even asked big bro for advice. I find that hilarious and I'm super flattered. He's the kind of guy that knows how to get any girl, yet was nervous when it came to me. So how did this all start?

I had told my roommate that I liked SOCOM and she told 1 of her friends this, who told G, who told me that he told SOCOM. I was slightly embarrassed when I found out, so I didn't talk to SOCOM much for the day after that. But the next 2 days things went back to normal and we flirted a lot and he even admitted that yes he was flirting w/ me. When I flirt I'm always nervous and make comments w/ double meanings so if the guy is interested he'll think I'm flirting but if not then it's no big deal. But one day I said fuck it and openly flirted w/ him and it worked out pretty well. Apparently he's liked me for awhile and tried calling me several times, but silly guy had the wrong number. I think he was intimidated partially b/c I'm black. I've spoken to a few flight mates about how the white guys are intimidated by us black girls. Most of them are still pretty young and haven't had much experience. Yea, he's 4 yrs younger than me but I don't care anymore, I really like him. And he smokes, but so does everyone else so I've gotten get used to being around cigarette smoke. I actually wasn't disgusted by the taste when making out w/ him.

Some flirty/sweet things he's said to me:
- obviously I have good taste in girls b/c I think you're cute
- boosted my ego when he explained why he likes me: I'm a strong girl. I'm basically doing the same things that he's doing (military lifestyle), I'm smart and confident, etc. Seeing that he compared us and I'm somewhat on his level really boosted my confidence, he likes me for more than my looks. I needed that since my confidence has been dwindling lately. I'm going to try to maintain this outlook b/c confidence really is an attractive feature.
- he sometimes calls me 'little one' I love it




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