blueberry

Confessions of a married woman
2011-04-11 15:33:48 (UTC)

I need input! Lots of it Please

Happy Monday, no not really. I hate coming back to work.

On Saturday I made the biggest mistake of my life (well another one) I told myself, I wouldn't let this happen and it did. I was getting ready to go to the club with my girl when my husband got home. I was wearing a low cut, short dress. He asked if that is how I was going to go out, I said of course. HE was not a happy camper and like a dumbass, I had a guilt trip, he told me that of course I didn't have to listen to him as he had no right, yada yada yada... He went out to the back to smoke. WTF Smoke? Really? He told me he had quit smoking, anyway I guess he was so pissed off that is how he released his stress. We came back into our room and we hugged, we kissed and one thing led to another. He went down on me, I came, we had sex, I cleaned up and I went my way. I told myself I wasn't going to give him anything, especially after knowing what is going on in his other life. Him and I need to talk about his situation soon. And I want to make a list or eles I'm going to forget one thing or another. This is what I have so far:

How do you feel about me?

How do you feel about her?

What do you want?

Do you want to be a part of your child's life?

How do you want to support your child?

How do you plan on visitation rights?

I want us to save money and I want to create an entire budget for us, especially since you have another type of responsibility now. Are you willing to let me handle our finances?

Are you willing to provide me with passwords for all of your accounts, including phone?

Are you willing to relocate?

You know I don't like being revenge full but if he doesnt love her any more he shouldnt be with her, and what better way to get revenge than keeping the man she thought was going to be hers by having his child. At least for a couple of years. I'm game! I just don't want to miss any discussion topics. I want to be in control. So please any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

Have a great week.




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