Dash

Shattered Thoughts
2010-06-28 09:54:37 (UTC)

People you will meet along the way

With everything that has happened to me this past weeks I
came to realization that most of the time there are two
kinds of friends you will meet a long the way. There
friends-for keeps and friends-for now. You will know these
kind of people when situations where conflicting beliefs and
values are at hand. People who will respect and accept the
values and beliefs that you have whether it conflicts with
them are the ones you could really say are for keeps. And
those who does not? Maybe all you have with them are just
temporary. When friends can't accept each other for what
they really are or what each other has then maybe that is
not true friendship after all. Don't push yourself just to
please anybody just so they will accept you and you will fit
in. If friends are true with each other, if friends respect
each other and if friends accepts each other for who they
are then you don't even have to lift a finger to fit in,
just like true love everything will fall into its right places.

Even so, both kind of friends should be valued equally.
Those who are for keeps should be valued and taken care of
so nothing will change, nothing will fade even through
silence or distance the concern, the acceptance, the respect
and the love will always be there. As long as you keep them
in your heart the friendship will always and forever blossom
even from a far. They are the people who brings out the
best in you. Gives you the confidence that you need, help
you when you can't carry the things that you have and
encourages you to do what you like to do even if they think
you don't have to. They are the ones who will stick up to
you whether good or bad happens to you. They are the ones
who loves to see you smiling and happy. I miss all these
people. Too bad distance are blocking our way but with
silent love and prayers for each other I know whenever we
meet again, nothing has changed, nothing has fade they are
still the friends-for keeps that I knew before.

And for the temporary friends? Well we should still value
those for just like or friends for keeps, they brings out
the best in us, teaching us how to stand up for ourselves
and continue believing on our values and beliefs. They
might not accept us for who we are but they helps us accept
who we are for ourselves and teach us how to accept others
for who they are. They might not respect us for who we are
but they helps us how to respect ourselves and others for
who they are. They will help you realize the importance of
the values and beliefs that you have and how to keep them,
hold on to them. They brings out the best in you by trying
to influence them on who you are. If they are just
temporary cherish every moment you had with them, good or
bad any moment is a learning and memorable moment for you.

They say opposite attracts maybe it is true but maybe it is
when accepting the other for who they are and maybe when
respecting the other for who they are that will be the time
that anybody attracts somebody.

God pushes you to be at your best when trials comes your way
and He Never leaves your side whatever happens. You might
be alone, you might not have anybody to talk with but He
Will Never leave your side. Maybe the people around you are
just temporary friends but God will always and forever be
your FRIEND-FOR KEEP.




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