Lady Ti

Should I leave.....

Sometimes I feel like my whole relationship is built on a
lie. When me and my boyfriend first started dating I was
just getting out of a long term relationship, and I knew
that when him and I first met he was dating other people,
I never asked I just knew, but, he took it upon himself to
tell me that he wasnt seeing anyone at all. (I never
believed him) Later when him and I do decided to make
things official he decides to change his facebook status
and surprise surprise I get a long message from a girl
saying that him and her had been dating the whole time and
so on and so on with a great detailed message that she
sent me. He told me that she was lying and that she was in
love with him and that they stopped talking before him and
I started talking. So I decided to give him the benefit of
the doubt plus i decided that tech him and I had just
started dating so it didnt matter. Two months after that I
find multiple sex tapes with him and other girls all file
names of course stored by the date when were after we
decided to make it offical. Still I stayed because I
decided that those dates were only two months into our
dating. He goes away for his job for about a month and
tells me that no other girl is emailing him or talking to
him on the phone or anything, he leaves his email up and I
see emails of girls sending him naked pictures and he
telling them he misses them. I then bring him home for
thanksgiving and two days later he lies telling me he is
with his daughter when he really wasnt then two days after
that lies and says he was at another resturant with his
friend and i find out that he lied about that too. Then
two months after that I find out that he gave me herpes
and still I've stayed. Then he ask me to move in with him,
he knows that I have a dog and said he would move to a
different apartment in the same development that would
allow us to have dogs, then he changed his mind, then he
says he doesnt want to move apartments but he wants me to
move in with him in his current ap[artment which would
means i would have to give my dog up. Then I ask when can
i be added to the lease and he says he doesnt want me to
be added to the lease until we move to a different
apartment, then i find out Im pregnant. He says he is
happy and that this changes nothing with our marriage
plans and that he already loves me and wanted to spend the
rest of his life with me. Now he is saying he doesnt want
to rush into marriage and he doesnt want to make a mistake
and that he has been stressed out. I think this pregnancy
has started to change my thinking. I have given up so much
of my time for someone who still needs to be entertained
by other women, for someone who still needs his own space,
for someone who isnt even sensitive to a lot of my needs
and feelings. I dont want to go into life as a mother
thinking I am starting a family, when in reality I am just
playing house. So tonight I told him that although I still
want to be with him that I am going to move out and stop
making sacrafices for him because I feel that he is not
making any for me. Now he is upset and doesnt want to talk
to me or talk about it. I know that as long as I stay he
will feel that I will always be here, and a woman can only
take so much before enough is enough, and at this point
Ive had enough!!!!!

Lady Ti