needachange

Needachange
2010-04-08 21:40:30 (UTC)

need a change!

i'm a newly wed i should be having the time of my life
instead i'm miserable. my hubby doesn't get me i don't get
him, why did we ever think that this would work. we're not
young kids we are both smart people. i like having a life
and friends and he's completely anti-social. we have
absolutely NOTHING in common. we don't like the same shows,
movies, music, food, hobbies, sports, nothing. even our
values are different. in my world my kids are top priority
over everything else. in his world he is the only thing
that matters. looking back now i see why so many people
fall into this trap called marriage, but why do we allow it
to happen? he's not a team player everything is on my
shoulders, i pay the bills i take care of my kids and his,
he doesn't clean, doesn't cook, doesn't ask how we are,
doesn't even pick up his dirty underwear from where ever he
happens to drop them, can't find a trash can to save his
life. i have my own kids i def dont need him to be an
additional one - so again i ask myself how is someone like
me stupid enough to marry someone like him?




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