Topsy Kretts

Breathing in the same sequence
2008-12-07 23:16:49 (UTC)

theory

between two lovers...there's nothing that one can do to
cause the other to love the other more nor less, love indeed
is a freewill, one cannot ask or work for it...it simply
cannot be controlled.
Take for example a man who loves a woman, the woman cannot
(does not have to)actually do anything for the man to make
the man love her more or less, if the man is truly in love
with her...love is already given...it is there no matter
what she does or does not do., the same goes the other way
around.
Love is beyond one's control.
Simply put, if there is love, it is there, if it is not
there then it will never be there. One might try to defy the
truth though deep inside it is already known, try as one
might...working for it (trying to cause love to exist where
it never did) will not cause it to exist.
Tenderness...is part of loving someone...if tenderness is
there...there is love...
Lovers do fall apart, sometimes for forever, some lovers
never even get back together again...but if the love is
real, like a spirit, tenderness never dies....even in memory
it thrives and transcends time.

In conclusion...to spend one's time lingering over things
beyond control is senseless, insane, and is a total waste of
time.




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