Just a small bird wanting to fly

CloudNStar
2006-04-18 12:54:51 (UTC)

remember this ! from holly to other bus member

From past experience with my abusive boyfriend... he will
give you some space,then he will begin with the apologies
and the I will love you forever, miss you, wont do it
again. PLEASE RECOGNISE THIS EARLY. Dont wait for to go
around in circles until eventually you do, because every
time you go round in that circle, you will be worn lower.
Your self esteem will be totally diminished by the end,
you will feel rejection, humiliation and heartbreak.

DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR HIM. YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIM. HE IS
A LOWLIFE AND ALWAYS WILL BE.

He sounds a horrible piece of work, I know someone just
like him. Sure they have their good bits occasionally,
but they are just acting them out and masking the monster
that they really are.


From: Holly_Golightly_inc Sent: 4/23/2006 3:17 AM
When I was doing NC with my ex from a previous breakup, he
used to start to text me after four weeks of complete No
Contact.... One day he text me I miss you, then I love
you.... then after no response from me it was then.... You
are such a fuck up.... then an hour after that.... I love
you and I am sorry for being an arse.... Unbelieveable!
Those were the only words of truth he has ever spoken....
he is an arse.
They go nuts when we dont respond, because we are keeping
some power! If you give in, he will take some power back
and then you will feel worse. He probably doesnt even
want you, just wants to know that he could have you if he
wanted to!
Keep the faith and NC!




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