2005-05-13 12:46:21 (UTC)

Advice from a man....

ADVICE FROM A MAN (This came from a man)

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he
want you, nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from

4. Stop trying to change yourselves for relationships
that's not
meant to be.

5. Slower is better

6. Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you
truly happy.

7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating
you as
you deserve, then, you can't be friends. A friend wouldn't
mistreat a
friend tell it like it is!

8. Don't settle.

9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.

10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be
mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are
not better.

11. The only person you can control in a relationship is

12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of
different women. He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant. Why
would he treat you any differently?

13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
bothers you, speak up.

15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it
against you later.

16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from
God alone can change people.

17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are...even if he has more education or in a better job.

18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing
nothing less.

19. Never let a man define who you are.

20. Never borrow someone else's man.

21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
treat you.

23. All men are NOT dogs.

24. You should not be the one doing all the bending ...
is a two way street.

25. You need time to heal between relationships...there is
cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing
a new
relationship."Don't open another door without closing the

26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for
complementary...not supplementary.

27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be

28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know
where you
are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes
it for

29. Never move into his mother's house.

30. Never co-sign for a man.

Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone
smile, another
rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say
it takes a
minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to
love them, and an entire life to forget them. "There are
many things
in life that will catch your eye, but only a few will
catch your heart
. . . pursue those."