-jeremy-

this is my story
2005-05-08 04:09:44 (UTC)

why am i always just the friend, and never the boyfriend


why does it always have to happen to me...

i am always coming up short on the end of the relationship
side to life...
it seems more and more i am not accepted as boyfriend
material, and i am only looked at as the really good
friend...

why do i have to be just the friend...
the third wheel...
the shoulder to cry on...
the comforting voice...
the person to lend a ear...
the person always to late to act to get the girl...
the one up all night listening to the tears of a girl who
just broke up with her boyfriend...
the one to wait too late to act on telling a girl how i
feel about her...
the one to break plans because someone in the group just
became a couple...

WHY ME!
WHY JEREMY!!

what did i ever do to deserve this...have i slipped so far
into the proverbial "friend zone" that there is no hope
for me to ever crawl back out into what is known as the
dating world...

it seems now a days the only girls i know are the ones who
think of me as "a really good friend" or who already have
a boyfriend...

for once can't i be the heartbreaker, the love
stealer..the guy who wins the girl out of all the other
competitive guys who want the same girl...

speaking of which...girls heres an interesting insite!!!...
if you didnt know already...about 70% of the guy
population treat you as trophies..
if a group of guys decide to talk about who they like..and
a girls name just happens to slip..then all the other guys
want that girl too..
..its a never ending battle to get the girl first..mainly
because then you can say that you dated the girl and took
her away from someone who wanted her...
we will just call this guy THE JERK!
often these guys are found telling the girl what they want
to hear, or often "liking" the girl just out of the blue
one day..and just so happen to act on the girls emotions
faster then anyone else...

heres the interesting thing...
the guy who didnt win you...the guy who you still talks to
you..the guy you complain about your new found boyfriend
too...HE LIKE YOU MORE THEN YOUR BOYFRIEND DOES!!
why?? because he was taking his time to get to know
you..the real you...not your personal attributes...what is
hidden underneath the curved body and model smile...
...this guy will often be the one who will never get a
chance with you because you have already put it in your
mind that since he cares about what you are feeling and
your likes and dislikes...he is more of a friend you can
console in, then somone you can date...
...we will call this guy THE GOOD GUY!

well so far...i have been THE GOOD GUY...
..but do i want to be THE JERK...heck no...
...i just want girls to relize what is happening...what is
really going on...because ill tell you this...guys are
idiots..we know that already..
..we are allowed to be idiotic and stupid minded...so
girls are the brains behind the whole relationship because
the guy is just happy he gets to hug you, kiss you, love
you enough that you do the same in return...
...thats why since the guys are idiots, some dont move
fast enough to win over the girl of their dreams...and
thats a crying shame...

even worse...
...is the pain of knowing how stupid you are for letting
her get away...

...sad...
...confused...
...emotionally drained...


let it all to God.




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