Chelsey Smith

Life's UP'S and down's!
2005-01-13 05:18:01 (UTC)

Life in gerneral

so, everyone says that you are destin in your life to do
something...what if there comes a time where you have no
clue what that is? i think i have come to that point, one
way is, you pick what seems to be the best: a caree with
lots of money, and life with a wonderful husband, very
structured, very...perfect, or the other, less attactive,
more...normal. Yeah its cliche, thats "life in gerneral".
so i have discoved that in my everyday, observances you
may say, of life many things happen. for the normal people
everyday never starts out the same, somedays you may wake
up refreshed ready to start the day, maybe even dress up!
then others seems like you just traveled 30 days on a
wickety ship, with 128 other people you have never met,
and only one bathroom. those days are when you throw on
the first thing that doesnt smell funky and get going,
your already late. but what if us "normal" people switched
lives with the "perfects"? all of the sudden, nanny is
taking the kids out, and your wonderful husbad is taking
his coffee, kissing you on the check, and telling you how
much he loves you...would that really be the perfect life?
could someone really go an entire life-time without
acctually seeing their childs first step, or the first
time they spit peas all over the kitchen wall, or their
first basket...even though it was for the other team? i've
always wandered that, if the perfect life really is
so.....................perfect. maybe someone should write
a book over how to live your life, you take a, lets say,
40 question test, then bassed on the answers given, you go
to the right section and live your life, they way you were
ment to. and its only an extra 24.99 for the book on the
correct way to disipline your "catagory" of child. that
would be perfect wouldnt it. never have to wander if you
were doing the right thing, you could finally be able to
enjoy your life. acctually have to clean up the peas! that
is of course if your fate is ment to have flying peas. now
today, we were talking about the anglo-saxon's. they are a
group of people that in 499 A.D. conquered what was then
called Briton (yes it is spelt correctly) for hundreds of
years they occupied this country, inter twining what they
believed into these other people culture. what i dont
understand was where was the Harriot Tubman, Rosa Parks,
or William Wallace? why didnt these people fight back? try
to keep what they had learned all their life, and another
question is why dont we do the same? everyone, even though
they may say they never have and never will, conformed
themselves to make another person happy. whether it be a
friend, a family member, a co-worker, your boss, or this
guy you you think is so cute but more then likly dont even
know who you are, and sometimes you wish didnt know who
you are...why do we do this to ourselves? why cant every
single one of us have the courage in us to say "okay, i
understand that you like it that way, but i am doing it
the way i have done it all my life, so if you dont like it
then i am sorry, now let me eat my peas"? why can some do
it...but not all? life is full of a lot of questions, most
will go unanswered, but maybe not, maybe we can find some
explinations to our questions. i call this "the humans way
to answers lifes little questions" we always blame someone
for something that happened, and usually...and when i say
usually i mean always...that someone isnt ourselves, and
that something is always bad. like when someone goes
bankrupt, they blame in on the economy, or the stock
market, or their banker...someone other then themselves.
no one made you buy a new car, no one made you invest on
something that has a tendency to go down, and not in the
same way your weight or cholesterol should, and no one has
a reason to blame it on the economy, because if you vote
for your president then you decided what the taxes will be
like, and if you didnt vote then you have no reason to
complain...the only reason you went bankrupt is because
you werent responsible, if you cant manage your finances
then dont buy new things, deal with what you have, dont
over spend, if there are two kinds of mac' and cheese and
you pick kraft because of the name, you are spending money
for a lable and some ink, the cheap brand is just as good
just not in as pretty of a box, and you may say that that
little amount of $ isnt much, then you must have nevered
heard of this in your math class...if you get one dollar
and a person tells you that he will either double what you
have each day for 10 days for give you $150 dollars right
there which one would you take? many would be greedy, and
take the money right away just to have it, but a smart
person would know that if you would wait on your
investment for only that 10 days in the end that man would
have to give you $512. so invest your money, get a CD, put
it in a saving account, do something so you dont have the
money with you to spend, if you have the money on hand you
are more likely to spend it then wait to go to the bank
get out the money then go back and get the item...that
shows you how lazy the world is today, but that is another
entry.........




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