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2003-10-14 19:12:55 (UTC)

Retrospective

Mood:Good
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Analysis:
I've always wondered what the deal is with girls,Seriously
I given alot of thought to this.Okay, you begin spying on
a girl who you think is cute and you'd like to get to know
her better[Easily said, but hard to do.]You casually intro-
duce yourself and try to spark up a conversation.All the
tools of the trade come into play.
1)Charm
2)Humor
3)Thoughts on aspects of life
I've tried them all..More than once in my eighteen years
of life.[Boy was it easy to have a relationship in
elementary]While speaking to the girl, you begin to
conversate on whether she is single or not,mmmm[this is
where it gets hard]It's typical not to be able to read a
girl when she's answering this question.If she answers that
she has an on - off relationship,you'd better hope that
the on - off boyfriend ain't behind you ready to strangle
you for talking to his "girl". If she answers "no" then you
are in the clear , ready to proceed to the next step of
your conversation with the lovely lady friend.You begin to
talk about your interests and whatnot..trying to figure
out if you are compatible with her.If you are geting a
positive vibe, you should proceed to phase 2.It's hard yet
easy for some guys to ask girls.The digits, el numero de
telefono,her number.Be casual about asking for the number,
don't automatically ask.If she says no, don't worry about
it.It happens to the best of guys who supposedly
have "game".But if she says yes,type the number into your
cell and proceed to call her later in the day.In the most
wierdest case, the lady friend could ask you fo your digits
[Hasn't happened to me,but I've heard stories.]
Phase 3: The conversation on the telephone.
This is the process that lasts a week or so.At the most
two weeks.[This is the part of the relationship that is
considered "talking;not dating yet]This is when you try to
get to know the lady a bit better before popping the
question of "dating itself"...It seems that there is
chemistry and you have enough confidence to proceed to
Phase 4.
Phase 4:The "question"
You two have been talking for a long time and you think
that there is a relationship in your future.You proceed to
call your lady friend.You begin conversationg on daily
happenings,local gossip and whatnot.You casually slip the
question in.[Suspense arrives while you wait for the
answer]In the worst case scenario, she says no.Move on, it
ain't or is the end of the world.She says yes,You can
begin to celebrate and start the relationship.But if she
says "I just want to be friends", that's the nail in the
coffin.It happens all too many times for guys but it might
be the best thing.You never want to lose a friend over
something like this.You never know what could happen in
the future.This was my Retrospective on relationships: I'm
not an expert or pro..I was just bored and this stuff came
to mind.
Enjoy.




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