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2001-09-26 05:08:45 (UTC)

passive a**hole

passive a**hole(n): person who tries not to
be mean but ends up indirectly being a jerk.


I need some work on this definition. It's a mind game.

You know who you are, unless you're really clueless.
Why confuse an issue by starting off with the mind games?
Why lead a female on if you have no intention of anything
more in the first place?

If you just want sex then be upfront.
Sex is easy.
You'd be surprised at how many females would
be more than happy to have sex.
It's enjoyable, very enjoyable... but empty with the wrong person.
You might think you have something with regular sex,
but not really.
Don't get me wrong.
It can turn into something more for those who can be open
about what they want.
If only....

Sometimes the a**hole could be the sweetest guy you meet.
He's so nice. Says the right things. Seems really happy to be with
you. He's just never the one to pick up the phone to call.
So maybe he's not a phone person. Fine, you make all the calls.
Get used to it. That's how you compromise. Think twice though.
If a guy really wants you in his world he WILL call.

Then there's the a**hole bf who wants to break up but doesn't.
He feels too bad to say anything that his elusiveness kills you.
This feeling is more painful than a break up itself.

Oh and the ex-bf who comes back a year later to tell you he didn't
realize how good you really were to him. Makes the extra effort this
time to not do all the mean acts he used to pull. Only he's too late.
You realize you were too good for him. You raised your standards.

How about the guy who is scared of commitment and calls you a "friend
with priveledges." You know that he's only Mr. Right Now. Then later
when he tells you how great you were to him you remind him you were
only "friends." But he insists that you were dating. *sigh*

More? Hmmm...
The married man who pursues
The older man who's a skirt chaser but won't be intimate
The bf who sees sex as the end of a relationship
Yeah....




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