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Life is a dream...the only thing real is
2003-01-22 18:09:10 (UTC)

Wedding

This weeekend was my brother in-law's wedding. At first,
it shocked me that my parents were not even invited. My
husband was in the wedding as "best man" even though he was
not invited to the bachelor party or any other wedding
events. His brother is all for show. Anyway, I brought my
cousin so I could feel a little love in the room and have
someone to help me remember what matters.

We sat through the catholic wedding along with readings
from the Old Testament about "serving our husbands" and
moved our way to the reception. We had a great time
talking to my husband's cousins and ate some food, drank
some wine.

Then the S&$t went down. His Aunts started pressuring him
to give a "speech". He said "I don't have anything
prepared. I wasn't even asked to give one." They were
saying "It's the best man's duty." I said to him "If you
don't feel comfortable, don't do it. I support you." They
turned to me and said "No, you are the one who doesn't want
him to give the speech. You cause all kinds of problems,
so why don't you just be quiet?" I left. My husband gave
them a pice of is mind and we all left at like 5:30. I
can't beleive how inappropriate some people are. I think it
will just take some time. I am not going to worry about
all the petty stuff. Life is too short.




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