somewhere in between
there's a difference between being upset and being
spiteful. there's a difference between being forced to
say something and offering it up. there's a difference
between something innocent and something evil.
there's a difference between listening and participating.
i'm trying to master the balance...all i know is
this...people don't always tell you the truth...and you
don't always tell everyone the truth. don't expect to lie
and receive the truth in return. unfortunately something
we're not good at as a group is letting go of
grudges...keeping records of wrongs...etc...it's not
healthy but it keeps happening and that's why feelings
keep getting hurt. forgiveness isn't about once the
person asks for it...it's once you decide to throw it at