good times, good times
2001-08-23 19:18:19 (UTC)

i ve noticed lately that you..

i've noticed lately that you rarely ever get what you want.
they say you don't get what you want but what you need, and
i guess that's true, but why can't what i want be what i
need sometimes? i'm sure we have already concluded that i'm
talking about men. i've found lately that what i want is
never there, or only there long enough for me to know that i
miss it when it's gone, and what i don't want won't leave me
alone. but the thing that's really got me confused is that
while they say you get what you need, and i know that none
of these guys that i could get is what i need. so does that
mean that if i decided i wanted them i couldnt get them
after all? or is there a totally different part of that rule
that everyone leaves out that says sometimes you get what
you don't want or need, and it's up to you to figure out
that that's what kind of relationship it is? but then, if
i'm capable of dicerning what i don't need why can't i tell
what i do?