lekkerdien

Single and Fabulous?
2002-08-08 06:26:46 (UTC)

At what point does stupidity become painful?

I was supposed to spend tonight downtown with Jack. We were
going to get together and go out with some pals for one
girls birthday. However, I got a call explaining that I
couldn't come up because he had to do some packing that
would take until 1 or 2 AM. The situation truly was out of
his hands and though I was disappointed, I was not angry.

Until now, when I got a phone call from Jack telling me
about his night. Apparently, he finished everything that he
could around 830, got a call from his buddy around 845 and
went out with them for a few hours to the bar that we had
planned on going to. He claimed that everything happened so
quickly that he didn't get a chance to call. Then he
changed his excuse to be that he didn't want to call me
because he "knows" (aka "assumes") that I am uncomfortable
hooking up after drinking because we have stopped sleeping
together. This makes hooking up awkward for him and he
didn't want us to get trashed and then do something that
I'll regret.

He apologized, but that doesn't make it stop hurting. It
doesn't make me feel any better that this guy screwed up
our plans, could have fixed it, and chose not to because
hooking up is awkward now that we aren't fucking.




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