Jencaero

meanderings

whiteshadowfox (9:18:42 PM): i got a question for you
whiteshadowfox (9:19:02 PM): what is the purpose of being
g/f b/f?
Hippobabe05 (9:20:38 PM): ummm
Hippobabe05 (9:20:39 PM): 1 min
Hippobabe05 (9:27:09 PM): ummm
Hippobabe05 (9:27:12 PM): i think its like a
Hippobabe05 (9:27:14 PM): commitment
Hippobabe05 (9:27:21 PM): that way yall are saved for
eachother
Hippobabe05 (9:27:30 PM): i dont know
Hippobabe05 (9:27:34 PM): what do you think?
Hippobabe05 (9:27:38 PM): sorry my bro came in and
Hippobabe05 (9:27:39 PM): yeah
whiteshadowfox (9:27:51 PM): hmm..I don't know whatI think
Hippobabe05 (9:29:03 PM): ummm
Hippobabe05 (9:29:11 PM): its a good question
Hippobabe05 (9:29:19 PM): because are we really mature
enough to handle relationships?
whiteshadowfox (9:29:27 PM): well no
whiteshadowfox (9:29:31 PM): i'm thinkni more along the
lines of
whiteshadowfox (9:29:40 PM): people arein relationships to
find their soul mate
whiteshadowfox (9:29:52 PM): so if htey know the person
isn't their soul mate...they shouldn't be together right?
Hippobabe05 (9:30:02 PM): but
Hippobabe05 (9:30:07 PM): maybe their preparing for it
Hippobabe05 (9:30:14 PM): and although everyone may have a
soulmate
Hippobabe05 (9:30:17 PM): that dont mean youre gonna find
it
Hippobabe05 (9:30:24 PM): and sometimes ya just gotta work
things out io guess
Hippobabe05 (9:30:26 PM): and accept people
Hippobabe05 (9:30:35 PM): cause you sure as heck aint
gonna change them
Hippobabe05 (9:30:41 PM): people dont cahnge all that
easily
Hippobabe05 (9:30:42 PM): *change
whiteshadowfox (9:30:54 PM): lol yeah i know...that wasn't
my whole point
whiteshadowfox (9:31:02 PM): but then my next statenment
was going to completely contradict that
whiteshadowfox (9:31:04 PM): i was gonna say
whiteshadowfox (9:31:12 PM): but we have to be wth ppl who
aren't our soulmate
whiteshadowfox (9:31:17 PM): so when we do find them ,we
know who they are
Hippobabe05 (9:31:24 PM): yeah but
Hippobabe05 (9:31:26 PM): what if we just know
Hippobabe05 (9:31:30 PM): when we find them
Hippobabe05 (9:31:36 PM): do we always have to be looking
Hippobabe05 (9:31:40 PM): what if in preparation
Hippobabe05 (9:31:44 PM): we totally overlook our soulmate?
whiteshadowfox (9:32:11 PM): good point, but if we aren't
w/our soulmate that means we won't be totally absorbed in
them, well there are some exceptions, but do you follow
that??
Hippobabe05 (9:32:26 PM): yeah
Hippobabe05 (9:32:28 PM): but
Hippobabe05 (9:32:36 PM): we dont have to be totally
absorbed in our soulmate
Hippobabe05 (9:32:40 PM): and i dont think kp is with hers
Hippobabe05 (9:32:43 PM): but shes still absorbed
whiteshadowfox (9:32:50 PM): yeah
Hippobabe05 (9:32:51 PM): and theyre not even going out
really
whiteshadowfox (9:32:52 PM): haha
whiteshadowfox (9:32:57 PM): i'm not talking about any
certain personi
whiteshadowfox (9:33:00 PM): i'm just talking
Hippobabe05 (9:33:04 PM): it depends more on the
personality
Hippobabe05 (9:33:09 PM): yeah
Hippobabe05 (9:33:09 PM): hehe
Hippobabe05 (9:34:35 PM): idunno
Hippobabe05 (9:34:37 PM): im not in one
Hippobabe05 (9:34:44 PM): but maybe
whiteshadowfox (9:34:48 PM): yeah but maybe
whiteshadowfox (9:34:48 PM): we are supposedto be with ppl
who aren't our soulmate
whiteshadowfox (9:34:48 PM): to find out what will be
problems in most of our relationships.....you konw the
things that seem to be problems in everyone
one.................*shrugs* i'm not either
Hippobabe05 (9:34:49 PM): that means i get a different view
Hippobabe05 (9:35:03 PM): but even if its our soulmate
Hippobabe05 (9:35:08 PM): there are still gonna be problems
Hippobabe05 (9:35:14 PM): cause problems come with
everything
Hippobabe05 (9:35:46 PM): if you want the point then go
straight for it
Hippobabe05 (9:35:50 PM): for the goal but
Hippobabe05 (9:35:53 PM): if you want fun on the way
Hippobabe05 (9:35:57 PM): you may not get the goal
Hippobabe05 (9:36:05 PM): and if you want the goal and you
go for it you still may not get it
Hippobabe05 (9:36:13 PM): consider the goal soulmate
whiteshadowfox (9:36:22 PM): hahaha
whiteshadowfox (9:36:24 PM): very true