LesbianNamedJenn

Lesbian Stories...
2002-06-26 17:35:15 (UTC)

the following is quite posibly..

the following is quite posibly the nicest comment i have
ever gotten on my journal. i dont know why. but i really
liked it. thank you shannon.

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From: [email protected]
Message:

well... if you really like feedback, i'll try to give you
some advice. take it or leave it - it's up to you. i've
been reading your log for almost a month now... think i'll
look back and read the previous entries. it sounds to me
like you had your physical encounter with kimbo - but that
may be all it really was to you when you get right down to
it. being a lesbian is hard - i know. being a young
lesbian is harder. i know that one too. when it's
offered, it's very special to have someone you can be
physical with because it seems so few and far between. so
you wind up getting caught up in the moment and soon you're
really not in a relationship for the right reasons.
another thing: you seem to be very, very interested in
gaelen - am i wrong? think on it if you haven't. nothing
says you can't play the field. see how both of those girls
feel about it. of course kimbo is gonna like you wanting
her - but what about you?? and i think gaelen may have the
smarts to be there for you as a friend first - or at least,
that's the way it sounds. i think the best advice i can
give you is this:
you need to do what's good for you. and you need to figure
out what good for you really is before you go saying
something you'll regret later.
as for the bad letter some dickhead sent - let that person
get nailed with his/her own karma. no one needs a rainbow
flag to tell themselves who they are. it's a nice little
addition to your ego and all - but really, it represents a
unity that is superficial in the gay/lesbian/bisexual
community. people are so desperate for someone to be with
these days that our 'community' has turned to back biting
and bitchiness. it only comes together on the rare
occassion it's good for them. otherwise, we're all pretty
much on our own with the exception of the few true friends
we make and keep along the way. sounds like you may have a
couple good ones. try to figure out where all the lines
between friendship and attraction are - cuase at times you
sound a little hazy. that's about all the information i
can offer - feel free to write back. and by the way - what
town/city do you live in in oregon??? i just moved to
shelton, wa - (a little north of olympia), and i've yet to
find out where all the gay people went. just becuase its a
back bitting bitchy little community doesn't mean i don't
want to find a few friends out this way. well, talk at you
later.
shannon





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