valese01

Under Orion's Belt
2002-04-27 01:05:43 (UTC)

My side of the story

This is not todays entry. this is a special entry in
response to a "special" event.

So josh, you take out all of your stuff. All of it. The TV,
fan and bike. My question is this: do you think you could
leave me the TV and fan for the rest of the school year
seeing as I will still be in the room? I understand that
its your TV, but i don't understand why its a hassle to
come back and get it at another time. I mean you live like ten
mins away right? The fact that your studying at home makes
no sense as an excuse to me because i know you have another
TV at your house. Besides if your studying why would you
need a TV? If your worried about trying to find a parking
spot when everyone else is moving out then come Thursday of
exam week and get it, when the majority of people have not
moved out yet. Or get it after your last exam if that is
eariler. That should allow you to avoid the crowds. As for
taking all the rugs this makes even less sense to me. Yes,
the two small rugs were yours, i acknowledge that fact. The
larger one however is in no way yours. Yes, you bought out
petes share of it when you moved in, but i still own my
share. I did not alienate you from the room. I made it very
clear that I would like a little warning so that i did not
walk in on you and Ashley, and i wasn't comfortable with
her in the room in the morning when i got back from my
shower. As i remember you agreed with me on these points
and we agreed to work them out. You then left and hardly
ever came round the room. As for the food, I honestly did
not know that some of the stuff was off limits. If i did i
would not have had any I swear. I don't remember you
telling me anything about it except "your welcome to it".
If you did say something more i obviously forgot. I mean
people can make honest mistakes you know. Unless you expect
everyone to be perfect. If you knew i was eating food that
you didn't want me to eat then you should have said
something. Yet, day after day you came and went and never
said a word about any of it. Question: how am i to know
that i'm doing something wrong if no one tells me so? I'm
not all-knowing. Then the fact that you basically take the
rug as payment for the food that i didn't know i wasn't
supposed to eat is not fair, its stupid. And you did so
without even talking to me about it whats more. If you had
I'm sure some kind of agreement could have been reached.

You're such the "bigger man". Yeah my ass. You're the
bigger man who won't tell people if he's angry and let it
get out of control, take things from another person when a
simple calm discussion would have solved the problem,
insults another person and then derides them for returning
the insult, and by calling himself the "bigger man" clearly
and intentionally insults another person. These are not the
acts of a "bigger man", but the acts of a coward and angry
little boy who has a lot of growing up to do.

I have done nothing all year but be the best roommate i
knew how to be. I talked about your problems with you and
offered my advice, allowed you to keep illegal items in the
room, tried to work out any problems with you rather then
let them fester, and just tried to be a nice guy. What did
i get in return? A kick in the balls thats what. I don't
understand what happened today but it saddens me that it
happened at all. I didn't mean to insult you but i was mad
and not thinking clearly and i apologized, and when you
came up to talk things over you have the balls to ask that
i pay for my own rug back?? What an arrogant ass-hole you
are. If anything you should be paying me ten bucks to buy
out my share. Thanks to you i have no TV, or extra fan and
no rugs for the remainder of the school year. My room looks
like a rather nice prison cell. I hope your happy in your
nice air-conditioned home. Fuck you and good luck in the
future "pal".




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