some guy

Who Cares?
2002-02-25 12:26:12 (UTC)

The hair cut

I needed a hair cut. Not a problem, she usually cuts my
hair pretty well, but I'm feeling like a change. I'm
somewhat bored with my appearance so I thought I'd seek
another opinion. I ask her how she'd like me to have my
hair cut "How you like it" comes the response. I push a bit
harder, saying I want to know what she would like (after
all, she's the one who has to look at it). Same response.
This pisses me off so I leave the conversation. Next day,
we were supposed to be going out but it was pissing with
rain so we scratched that idea. I ask what she wants to
do "Whatever you want to do". This is something that really
gets on my tits. Why can't she have an opinion abou t
anything. And it's not like this is the only time it
happens. Evey time I ask her what she wants to do or what
she would like she just says she wants whatever I want. One
thing I really need from a girlfriend is an opinion. My
perfect partner would be able to have a thought of their
own and be able to share it with others. I don;t like the
idea of someone always having to do or put up with what I
want all the time, and I don't like having to always use my
ideas or whatever because I know they're not always the
best ones (did I really just say that???)

Anyway, time to get some lunch before I get too arsey.