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2017-12-26 14:53:17 (UTC)

What people dont know very well to do ..

What people dont know very well to do is. Loving themselves. I believe we all struggle with that. But many people tell us. "You have to love yourself first before getting a relationship" many of you probably rolled your eyes at this so many times. Because we are tired of hearing the same old phrase. Ovee and over again. To the pount to tune out that voice. The real reason or suggest the real question. Is by "How do I start loving myself?"... There might be many answers for that. But ill see if you can figure it out.
Loving yourself. Is getting things you'd wamt other people to get you. Like you see a cute dress or a nice shoes 👞 and you buy them. Now many may say "materlistic things don't contribute to love" yes and no. You lovr your self by telling yourself you deserve it. Even of its so small. "Ill shall buy this because I didnt get a christmas gift I was to scared to ask for" loving yourself. Is fixing yourself. And that goes for apperance
You start dressing a little more to get to work or school. You start feeling cute. And slowly. I guess what Beyonce would say "feeling yourself". I always came. To be stuck on. Loving myself. Because I never dressed up decent. Never did my hair. A good friend of mine said "when a women looks good she feels good" vice versa with men... Loving yourself. Is having the guts to go out in public ALONE! I did that at ihop. I ate by myself. Enjoyed my own company. I really enjoyed it that when I'm out with froebds I just enjoy the quiteness. Loving yourself that you deserve to be taken out. Be inlove by doing a date night. Wheather it's going to watch a movie. Not Netflix. But an actual movie theater. Buying yourself a huge popcorn you dont have to share with anybody! Which is also great! Loving yourself by going downtown. One of my bucket list. Is walking the city . but its dangerous. Enjoying your own company. I noticed yesterday. I dont necessarily miss Adrian. But I miss someones touch. Someone holding me. I notice when I carried a baby and my firneds boyfriend warm hands touched mine. Its when I realized I just miss being touched. I dont miss Adrian. I'm just lonely. Emotion is a Latin word that means. "To disturb" Adrian brought me so many emotions that I now feel obligated to take someone with me from not being so alone. When back in the day I could go out by myself with out fear of being judged. Its wired. Emotions build up in us that we forget about ourselves. Loving our own company with out a person. No offence that person comes to disturb them.




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