sft

A Subs Space... OVER 18!
2014-06-12 13:53:59 (UTC)

Master's Entry - Updated

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, each time hoping for a different result.

Why does my slave insist on painting herself into a corner? When this started, I sent an email to both of you, telling you to fix it. I expect compromise. No, actually, more than compromise. I expect surrender. What outcome are you hoping for, with this kind of behaviour?

I've pointed out that *any* statement can be interpreted in a negative way if you try hard enough. It's bitchy. It's sarcastic. It's a dig. It's overly ingratiating. It's barbed. Whatever.

And I have remarked that the reverse is possible too. No matter how nasty a statement might be, there is usually a way of looking at it that assumes good faith and takes the sharp edge off of it. Looking for the positive is a skill that can be acquired through practice. your minds can be *trained* to assume the best possible - as a habit.

So, as your co-existence is going to be as permanent as anything is, I suggest both of you acquire and practice that habit. Until you do, you will have a Master who will be somewhere between discontented and angry. With ugly consequences.

So get over your self-pity, your indignation and your self-righteousness. I honestly don't mind when you vent because you've been hurt or something is wrong. But you're my slave, not a fucking prima donna. If you want to express your feelings freely, and you want me to take them seriously, then stop getting upset at trivialities.

(To put things in perspective, here's a transcript of the emails that seemed to have started this:

SFT: Did You tell chatte that i recommended You use the cane on her?
she just said "thanks for recommending the cane...not"

MASTER: LOL... I can’t remember saying it… I might have. Or she might just know that you wanna see her striped… :P

SFT: whats she say that for?ive just told her ive bloody asked You!

MASTER: Well, maybe I did tell her – I really can’t remember! Frankly, I can’t see why you’re getting upset?

SFT: she just said she was joking about it.
Why would she joke about me telling You to use the cane on her?
i'm upset because she's made me question You about it and You didnt even say it!


Really??? I'm not making this shite up. *This* was upsetting enough to risk *my* displeasure? Wow... something needs to change!)




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